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Go Horizontal
"I prefer to be lying on my back, but sometimes change it up with being on my stomach," says an anonymous source. "I prefer not to be standing or sitting (unless in a cozy, relaxed seated position, as it's distracting to be uncomfortable and using unnecessary muscles when I’m trying to relax and focus on my erogenous zones.
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Rub and Ride
For multitasking masturbation, have a penis-having partner lie down on their back. The vulva owner straddles them just below their penis and moves their hand up and down the shaft while positioning their thumb on their clit. Add a dab of lube to make things move even more smoothly.
Tummy Time
Irina likes to lay on her belly, legs crossed at ankle level, both hands on her vulva, (on top of each other forming a V.) “While I rock my pelvis, I cup my hands in a waving motion,” she says.
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Legs in the Air
“I’m often embarrassed that I love my legs all the way up,” says J. Trevino. “Keeping them on the ground doesn’t get at where I most love it.” Trevino also doesn’t like anyone hanging on her. “I need wide arm movement and reach. It’s important that I can ‘hit me’ hard inside.”
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Ride a Straddle-style Sex Machine
If you want a no-fail, mechanical assist, consider a fully automated sex machine. These are akin to riding a mechanical bull, except with a thrusting phallus and no risk of being bucked. From the penetrative vantage point of this sex toy, I can play with my clit, solo, or maintain contact with a partner pleasuring themselves. Either scenario is super-hot.
It may seem a little odd at first to lie side-by-side, on your backs, head-to-foot. But if you scooch so that each of you can easily reach the other's genitals by reaching up between their legs, this can be a very relaxing position. (Not to mention, a fantastic perspective of your partner’s party-spot.)
If your hand and forearm get tired after stroking or finger fucking for a while (raises hand), this position allows proper arm support to go the duration. You can always add in a variety of toys in this position (or any of the above positions)!