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8 Hot Sex Positions That Are Even Hotter With Sex Toys

by JOELLEN NOTTE
Published: SEPTEMBER 13, 2021
Presented by KINKLY SHOP
Raid your toy box with a partner and try one of these super-hot sex positions.

Sex is fun, sex toys are fun, so bringing them together must be a blast, right? Honestly, I'm not entirely sure - I have a terrible habit of getting too excited to take the time to raid my toy box. It's like, one thing leads to another and the next thing you know someone's bringing me a towel, amirite? So, today I'm going out map out some sex positions and even some sex toys that go with them so that we can all be more prepared.

Before we get going, a note on the toys mentioned: I've selected an assortment of body safe sex toys I like for this article and mixed & matched them with the various positions. I like these toys but you may not - we're all different. Fortunately, the world of sex toys is wide! Explore and find the perfect toys to fit your preferences and budget.

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Something to bear in mind with many of these positions: Butt plugs/prostate stimulators can be worn by the partner doing the penetrating and, in the case of vaginal intercourse, by receiving partners too. Folks with penises can also incorporate cock rings.

In addition, for penetrating partners who are strapping on, Sportsheets is a great pick for your first harness, even offering a kit that includes two silicone dildos.

Now, let’s look at some fun sex positions with sex toys to try out when you want to raid your toy box!

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Best All Around Sex Positions with Sex Toys

Doggy Style Position



Doggy style sex position with Magic Wand Vibrator

Doggy-Style creates so much great access for incorporating toys! There's lots of room to apply a vibrator to your partner’s clitoris or perineum, ample room for the receiving partner to use a stroker - there’s just a lot of fun to be had here! In the image above, one partner is pleasing herself with a Magic Wand Rechargeable vibe.

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Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: WeVibe Touch, WeVibe Tango, We-Vibe Tango X

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.

Spoon Position


Spoon Sex Position. Two people are laying side-by-side with one person's back pressing into the other person's chest. The person from behind is holding a vibrator in-between the front person's legs.

The Spoon Position is mellow and intimate and creates lots of opportunity for sex toy use. The receiving partner can lean back into the penetrating partner and either use a toy on themselves or leave themselves to the mercy of their partner, who can reach around and use the toy on them. In the image above, these lovers are playing with the LELO MONA 2.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Touch

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.

Lap Dance Position


Lap Dance Sex Position. The penetrating partner is seated on a chair. The receiving partner is sitting on their lap for penetration while holding an air suction vibrator that they are about to use on themselves.

The Lap Dance position has some of the same benefits as the Spoon sex position with the added appeal of being a bit more active for the receiving partner. Here the receiving partner can control more of the action and is ideally placed to use a toy on themselves. In this image, the receiving partner is getting ready to use the Womanizer Liberty.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Touch

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.

Magic Mountain Position


Magic Mountain Sex Position. The receiving partner is leaned over a low ottoman with their forearms on the furniture and their knees on the floor. The penetrating partner copies this position, kneeling right behind the receiver to facilitate sex.

Magic Mountain and similar sex positions that place the receiving partner directly against furniture (bed, couch, counter, cat tree, whatever, it’s your thing) are great because they allow you to really wedge a toy in place, making toy use mostly effortless (I won’t lie, things slide around, you may have to do a little toy position maintenance). In the image above, this couple is reaching for the We-Vibe Wish clitoral vibrator. (You know where it's supposed to go - we just couldn't figure out how to draw it that way!)

[Kinkly Staff Note: The We-Vibe Wish is no longer in production. We recommend another full-vulva pleasure vibrator like the Clandestine Mimic Plus or Wildflower Enby 2.]

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Touch

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.

Afternoon Delight Position


Afternoon Delight Sex Position. The penetrating partner is laying out flat on their side. The receiving partner is laying at 90-degrees, facing the ceiling, with their hips matched with their partner's hips. The penetrating partner holds a vibrator to use on their partner.



Afternoon Delight is a fun sex position precisely because it's a little awkward. You have to slow things down to make this one work and that makes it a great place to put some toys to work. Plus, it offers a great view of your partner - whichever end you are on! In the image above, one partner is holding the We-Vibe Touch clitoral vibrator.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, We-Vibe Touch, Womanizer Liberty

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.


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Missionary with a Lift Position

Missionary with a Lift Position. The receiving partner is laying back with their hips elevated thanks to a Liberator Ramp. The penetrating partner is on their knees, leaning forward, to penetrate their partner. The penetrating partner is holding a We-Vibe couples vibrator that can be worn during intercourse.


There’s a whole market devoted to “couples’” toys (spoiler alert: couples can actually use ANY toy!) and if there is any position in which these toys can really shine, it's Missionary. Especially when engaging in vaginal intercourse, couple's vibrators that boast the ability to “fit neatly between partners” can be brought out now. Also, vibrating cock rings get a chance to shine here. In the image above, our couple is getting comfy with a Liberator Ramp and getting ready to roll with the We-Vibe Unite couples' vibrator.

Other great toy picks for this position:

To add a little variety to your missionary adventure, why not try taking it upright, with the Standing Missionary Position, or switching it up with the Reverse Missionary Position?


Best Oral Sex Positions with Sex Toys

Elevated Oral Sex Position

Elevated Oral Sex Position. The receiving partner is laying back on the Liberator Ramp while using the Liberator Wedge as a pillow. The giving partner is kneeling with their face between their partner's legs. The giving partner holds a vibrator in their hand which can be used on the receiving partner.

Elevated Oral is a super-fun place to incorporate toys because of the sheer range of possibilities. Elevating the receiving partner's hips makes the partner on the giving end able to get at them without leaning all their weight into their arms so their hands are free for toy use! It's a great opportunity for g-spot teasing and intense shaft pleasing. In the image above, this couple is making use of the Liberator Ramp and the We-Vibe Rave.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: We-Vibe Rave, Dame Arc, Hot Octopuss Kurve.

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy. (its open end makes it ideal for shaft stimulation during fellatio).


Head Rest Position

Head Rest Position. The receiving partner is laying on their side. The giving partner is also laying on their side at a 90-degree angle to rest their head on the receiver's thigh while providing oral sex. The receiver holds a wand massager between the giver's thighs during oral sex.

The Head Rest is a fun sex position for pleasing the person who is pleasing you! This setup makes it easy to use a toy on your partner while they provide you with oral stimulation. Fun, right? The couple above is making use of Magic Wand Rechargeable.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: We-Vibe Touch, We-Vibe Wand, We-Vibe Melt.

For folks with penises: Fleshlight Quickshot, bSwish bHandy.

The Bottom Line

Well, there you go, folks, just a couple of ideas to help inspire you to incorporate toys into your sex lives. Now go forth, raid your toy box, and enjoy!

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JoEllen Notte

JoEllen is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken on her award-winning site The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen is currently writing her first book: “The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having”


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