Sex is fun, sex toys are fun, so bringing them together must be a blast, right? Honestly, I'm not entirely sure - I have a terrible habit of getting too excited to take the time to raid my toy box. It's like, one thing leads to another and the next thing you know someone's bringing me a towel, amirite? So, today I'm going out map out some sex positions and even some sex toys that go with them so that we can all be more prepared.

Before we get going, a note on the toys mentioned: I've selected an assortment of toys I like for this article and mixed & matched them with the various positions. I like these toys but you may not - we're all different. Fortunately, the world of sex toys is wide! Explore and find the perfect toys to fit your preferences and budget.

Something to bear in mind with many of these positions: Butt plugs/prostate stimulators can be worn by the partner doing the penetrating and, in the case of vaginal intercourse, by receiving partners too. Folks with penises can also incorporate cock rings and, if you are feeling particularly daring, fun cock ring/prostate stimulator combos!

In addition, for penetrating partners who are strapping on, Sportsheets is a great pick for your first harness, even offering a kit that includes two silicone dildos.

Finally, for receiving partners with penises: Because erections don’t always happen during anal penetration, I’m including a toy option that doesn’t require an erection to use, look for the **.

Now, let’s look at some fun sex positions to try out when you want to raid your toy box!

Toy Friendly Sex Positions For Everyone

Doggy Style Position


Doggy style sex position with Magic Wand Vibrator

Doggy-Style creates so much great access for incorporating toys! There's lots of room to apply a vibrator to your partner’s clitoris or perineum, ample room for the receiving partner to use a stroker - there’s just a lot of fun to be had here! In the image above, one partner is pleasing herself with a Magic Wand Rechargeable vibe.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: WeVibe Touch, WeVibe Tango

For folks with penises: A&E Turbo Stroker Attachment**, Flashlight Quickshot

Spoon Position

Spoon Sex Position with Sex Toy

The Spoon Position is mellow and intimate and creates lots of opportunity for sex toy use. The receiving partner can lean back into the penetrating partner and either use a toy on themselves or leave themselves to the mercy of their partner, who can reach around and use the toy on them. In the image above, these lovers are playing with the Swan Wand.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Touch

For folks with penises: A&E Turbo Stroker Attachment**, Flashlight Quickshot

Lap Dance Position

Lap Dance Sex Position with the Womanizer Clit Stimulator

The Lap Dance position has some of the same benefits as the Spoon sex position with the added appeal of being a bit more active for the receiving partner. Here the receiving partner can control more of the action and is ideally placed to use a toy on themselves. In this image, the receiving partner is getting ready to use the Womanizer Deluxe.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Wish, Swan Wand

For folks with penises: A&E Turbo Stroker Attachment**, Flashlight Quickshot

Magic Mountain Position

Magic Mountain Position with We-Vibe Wish

Magic Mountain and similar sex positions that place the receiving partner directly against furniture (bed, couch, counter, cat tree, whatever, it’s your thing) are great because they allow you to really wedge a toy in place, making toy use mostly effortless (I won’t lie, things slide around, you may have to do a little toy position maintenance). In the image above, this couple is reaching for the We-Vibe Wish clitoral vibrator. (You know where it's supposed to go - we just couldn't figure out how to draw it that way!)

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Touch

For folks with penises: Vibra Cup Head Stimulator Attachment

Afternoon Delight Position

8 Hot Sex Positions That Work Great With Sex Toys

Afternoon Delight is a fun sex position precisely because it's a little awkward. You have to slow things down to make this one work and that makes it a great place to put some toys to work. Plus, it offers a great view of your partner - whichever end you are on! In the image above, one partner is holding the We-Vibe Touch Clitoral Vibrator.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: Magic Wand Rechargeable, WeVibe Wish, Womanizer Deluxe

For folks with penises: Vibra Cup Head Stimulator Attachment, A&E Turbo Stroker Attachment**, Flashlight Quickshot


Toy Friendly Vaginal Intercourse

Missionary with a Lift Position

Missionary Sex Position with a couples vibrator


There’s a whole market devoted to “couples’” toys (spoiler alert: couples can actually use ANY toy!) and if there is any position in which these toys can really shine, it’s Missionary. Especially when engaging in vaginal intercourse, toys that boast the ability to “fit neatly between partners” can be brought out now. Also, vibrating cock rings get a chance to shine here. In the image above, our couple is getting comfy with a Liberator Ramp and getting ready to roll with the We-Vibe Sync couples' vibrator.

Other great toy picks for this position:

Toy Friendly Oral Sex Positions

Elevated Oral Sex Position

Elevated Oral Sex Position with Liberator Ramp and Vibrator

Elevated Oral is a super-fun place to incorporate toys because of the sheer range of possibilities. Elevating the receiving partner's hips makes the partner on the giving end able to get at them without leaning all their weight into their arms so their hands are free for toy use! It's a great opportunity for G-spot teasing and intense shaft pleasing. In the image above, this couple is making use of the Liberator Ramp and the G-Gasm G-Spot Vibe.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with penises: Flashlight Quickshot (its open end makes it ideal for shaft stimulation during fellatio).

Head Rest Position

Head rest oral sex position with magic wand

The Head Rest is a fun sex position for pleasing the person who is pleasing you! This setup makes it easy to use a toy on your partner while they provide you with oral stimulation. Fun, right? The couple above is making use of Magic Wand Rechargeable.

Other great toy picks for this position:

For folks with clitorises: WeVibe Touch, WeVibe Wish

For folks with penises: A&E Turbo Stroker Attachment**, Flashlight Quickshot

Well, there you go, folks, just a couple of ideas to help inspire you to incorporate toys into your sex lives. Now go forth, raid your toy box, and enjoy!