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Q:

What type of vibrator would you recommend for a woman who has never tried a sex toy before?

A:

What a fantastic question, one that I get asked a lot at pop-up events & social media. I ask women what they are looking to achieve from the product.

  • Are you looking for solo play or with your partner/s?
  • Do you want to start slow or jump in headfirst?

After I find that out, I can give the recommendations if they're going to start slow; I would say try a small bullet with at least 4 functions to build up to a new plateau. I like letting them know how many different ways the product can be used. It's not only for the clit - you may want to try it for some self foreplay of your nipples, inner thighs, and anywhere you feel sexy. I show a few small items to choose from if they think the bullet may be too small for them, products such as:

  • mini wands.
  • lipstick or mascara vibrators.
  • air pulse or suction vibes.

Social media is helping people be more open to vibrators and want to try what they see others are using. I like to make them understand that not all products work the same for everyone, so go into all vibrators with an open mind knowing that you may not get the same result that others have had.

If, on the other hand, they would like to jump headfirst into vibrators, we can check out internal products or dual motor (rabbit vibrator) products that can hit the G-spot and clit same time for a more intense session.

Maybe they would like to have a vibrator they can wear outside without anyone knowing, so a nice panty vibrator will be the way to go.

I just like to let women know that whichever vibrator they want to go for make sure you always use lubrication that is very important to use with toys and that lube is for everyone.

In the end, always know that it’s okay to want to try a vibrator that can help a lot in many areas. (smile)

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