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Why do some Dommes charge for their services?

Cara Sutra
Profile Picture of Cara Sutra Cara Sutra writes at her own sexuality magazine, carasutra.co.uk as well as acting as professional copywriter for many high-profile adult industry publications, both online and in print. Her magazine style website is a combination of her personal sex blog, sex, relationship and fetish advice articles, erotic fiction, sex industry news as well as a large number of adult product and sex toy reviews.  Full Bio
Q:

Why do some Dommes charge for their services?

A: Domination is a skill that also requires many attributes, some natural, others acquired through financial means. Most good Mistresses and Dommes are naturally Dominant in their characters and simply choose to use this skill to make a decent living. After all, we all have bills to pay!

A Professional Domme (otherwise known as a Pro-Domme or Pro-Dom) should not be treated with any less respect than any other Dominant woman. In fact choosing to Dominant as a daily job can require more patience and long suffering than you'd imagine. Coming into contact with slaves and submissives from all quarters of the BDSM realm, Professional Dommes are expected to have the required knowledge and tools for any given fetish or niche kink. And don't forget those kinky implements and the tight fitting, shiny outfits you so admire on a Domme. These aren't free, nor is the hire of a well-equipped dungeon within which our clients' deviant desires are sated.

Just as you wouldn't expect to gain the temporary services of any other skilled professional for free, it would be wrong to assume that a Professional Domme will attend to your personal kinks and BDSM desires without remuneration.

Lifestyle Dommes do not charge for their services; however this often means that the day-by-day domination they provide does not include servicing your particular demands within any particular time frames. Domination requirements tailored to you are charged by the hour or session by a skilled professional.

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