Who Are They to Judge?
I am the last person in the world you want to tell to put their freak flag away when it comes to sex! I am constantly writing about and talking about my sexual exploits, and if someone doesn’t like it they can go to hell! You should do the same to anyone who judges you for getting your freak on and loving every second of it.
If you love a good pounding in the morning (or noon, or night) then so be it! If you need to start or cap off your day with an orgasm or two, then by all means you should get what you need! If you come home after a shitty day and just want your partner to throw you against the wall, pull your hair, and fuck you until the neighbors are screaming in delight, then by all means you should be able to do that without judgment.
Who are they to judge, anyway? In my experience, when people get their undies in a bunch over my sexual satisfaction, it’s usually because their own sex life sucks. Sorry baby, that’s not my fault (but maybe you should stop being so damn nosy about my sex life and fix your own.)
Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby
Sex is supposed to be fun, not taboo or something to be ashamed of doing. Sex is a natural part of human existence. It is not something to shush away and only talk about in hushed tones behind closed doors (unless that turns you on, of course). You shouldn’t feel like you’re doing something wrong or bad because you enjoy sex. That’s what being sex positive is all about - embracing your sexuality.
Personally, I think everyone should be more open about sex. We should all be talking about it openly and honestly, especially with our partners. Hell, if you can’t talk about sex with the person you intend to be naked with, then maybe you should rethink getting naked. I’m all for the one-night stands and casual sex, but even people who plan to fuck and forget should, at the very least, get the STI and birth control talk out of the way first. Plus, why not let the person know what you like and how to bring you to climax?
I love rough, raunchy sex. I love having my hair pulled and my ass smacked. I love to dominate men in the bedroom and I also love being dominated. I love men and women. I love group sex and threesomes. I love watching as well as being watched. If all of this makes me a slut, well, then I’m happy to be one. At least my sex life is satisfying!
More people should close their mouths, open their minds (and their legs), and see sex for what it is: a positive intimate experience between two or more consenting adults who just want to get their rocks off.
There’s nothing wrong with that in my book, but who am I to judge?