The Sensual Stomach
Forget those body hang-ups and enjoy how good it feels when your partner touches your tummy. The abdomen is such an erogenous zone that some women can even orgasm just through flexing the muscles! Even if you can’t achieve that, sensual touch and massage can do wonders, and send delicious tingles down your body.
Read: 6 Ways to Feel Better About Your Body in Bed
Love the Butt
A firm hand on the buttocks can feel delicious. Grab handfuls when you’re kissing, or spank your partner if you’re feeling brave. Not everyone warms to this kind of sensual punishment, but it can drive the right person crazy.
Others prefer a lighter touch. Whichever you choose, spend time celebrating this area. If you feel self conscious, try to focus on how you feel, rather than worrying about how you think you might look. Lower inhibitions lead to amazing sex. (And remember, your partner chose you ... and your butt!)
The Sexy Side of Knees and Elbows
The knees and elbows aren’t the most attractive body parts, but you can discover their sensual sides with a bit of exploring. There are many nerve endings concentrated in the underside of these areas just waiting for you to take advantage of them.
These sweet spots can get ticklish, but they can also feel amazing if you kiss them or massage them gently with a little oil or lotion. If you get a good reaction, don’t be afraid to take a little nibble!
That Delicious Space Between the Ears
We can’t stress this enough: Don’t forget the brain. Research suggests that the brain is really our biggest erogenous zone. After all, that's where sexual desire starts. It's also the area that commands our orgasms.
Now, of course, you can’t stroke the mind the same way you can the other erogenous zones we’ve mentioned, but you can stimulate it. Make lovemaking a visual feast with mood lighting and plenty of eye contact. Breathe in pheromones, and wear your partner’s favorite perfume or cologne. And remember to communicate, whether it’s whispering sweet nothings or talking dirty. Better yet, get those neurons firing before you even touch by sending your partner a sexy note during the day.
Sex Is Sensation
Sex is all about sensation, but what we often forget is that our bodies have a whole landscape of sexually responsive areas. Of course, everone's sweet spots are a bit different, which means it'll take some time to explore and map out what works for you and your partner. Chances are you'll both enjoy the effort so much, you won't even mind.
And once you find those sweet spots on yourself or your partner, don't be afraid to play around with different sensations! Clitoral vibrators danced across the neck, whips tickled delicately along a spine, or even a paddle for those that like their erogenous zones stimulated with a bit more fever.