They Enjoy the Dance
Women should never chase men or buses; neither will stop and wait for you. That's because guys enjoy a good quest. So, play games, tease him a little and keep the fun going outside the bedroom. Great sex is about more than what happens between the sheets. If you want to be good in bed, you have to work to make him desire you everywhere else, too.
They Like It Simple
Women are all about making things "special." That's why we tend to leave the sexy lingerie
for his birthday or an anniversary. To a man, though, any night is the perfect time to see you all dolled up in lace!
But if you really want to get him going, skip the confusing clasps, zippers and strings, and slip into something simple and sexy.
"I just like black lace undies. I’ve taken a lot of bras off and I remain terrible at it," said Kyle. "Don’t make me fumble with a confusing, soft contraption with wires and two pieces of plastic."
There’s More to Them Than the Family Jewels
The penis gets all the press, but guys have many other erogenous zones
. They just kinda forget to tell you about them sometimes. Gripping a man’s testicles
or stroking the perineum, the tender area between the scrotum and anus, are both instant turn-ons. Don’t forget his neck, chest or inner thighs either. (Read more about the start of the show in 10 Things You Don't Know About Penises
They Love to Watch
Men are visual creatures, so just watching a woman wear - and remove - something sexy is a huge turn-on.
"Clothing is a big factor for a lot of guys, I think. Don't expect a set of flannel PJs to do the trick - not that we expect you to always walk around in a see through nightie or something...but anything aesthetically pleasing certainly helps," Felix told me.
Next time you’re showering at your guy’s house, leave the door open so he can get a naughty peak. Or give him a night he’ll never forget with a seductive strip tease or lap dance. (Curious about how strippers do it? Check out Why Men Go to Strip Clubs.)
They Appreciate Honesty
Communication is key when it comes to men. Most men really, really, really
want to see their partner get off. And if they’re not doing the job, they want to know about it.
If you need your partner to speed things up or slow it down, be sure to tell him. Also take the initiative and tell him where to touch you.
"If you need something, if something is unpleasant or it hurts, you’re obviously not going to get off. I want you to get off at least twice before I do, so direct me if it’s not going exactly your way," said Kyle.
Let him chase you, wear cute underwear, and tell him what you like. Sounds simple enough, right? Of course, every guy is different, so if you really want to blow his mind, ask him to reveal his biggest turn-ons. The rest, of course, is up to you. (For more ultra-hot tips, check out Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man.)