![diagram of cowgirl sex position]( "Cowgirl Sex Position")
Why It Works: In this position, the man gets a break from all that thrusting and can just lie back and enjoy the view, while the woman gets to control the rhythm and speed of the action. For a woman, this can also be a good position for orgasm, especially for those who like a little manual help from their partner.
Yeehaw! ... In Reverse
When it comes to sex, sometimes a little change makes a big difference. Reverse the cowgirl position and you'll be in a whole new world. Reverse cowgirl is slightly more difficult than cowgirl - the angle makes it a little more difficult to stay engaged here. But the woman can experiment with leaning forward or back, or even supporting herself by crouching over her man’s legs.
![diagram of reverse cowgirl sex position]( "Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position")
Why It Works: This position can be challenging to master, which is a bit of a thrill. It's also a great way to target a woman's G-spot. Plus, the man gets a great view from behind in this one (and really, what guy doesn't love that?).
Lotus Lovin'
In lotus position, the man is seated and the woman kneels on his lap, or sits and wraps her legs around him in a position that, apparently, resembles a lotus flower. A kinky lotus flower ... but I digress.
![diagram of lotus sex position]( "Lotus Sex Position")
Why It Works: In yoga, lotus position is often used for meditation. OK, so we're talking about a sex position here, but the same principles apply: This positions is comfortable, so it's perfect for a long, slow, intimate night. Best of all, either partner can take control of the speed and the rhythm. (Get more tips in The No.1 Secret to Female Orgasm.)
The Shoulder Holder
In shoulder holder, the woman lies back and throws her legs over one of her partner's shoulders. This can be mixed up a bit by sliding a pillow under the woman's tail bone, or adjusting the angle at which her partner bends toward her. He can also hold onto her ankles and pull her legs outward for deeper penetration.
![diagram of shoulder holder sex position]( "Shoulder Holder Sex Position")
Why It Works: This is a very simple modification of missionary position that should be manageable for a lot of people, but it allows for a whole different angle of penetration. Plus, it's kinda carefree and fun!
Hot Crossed ...
OK, people, let's get creative here. In this position, the man lies on his side perpendicular to his partner so that her legs are draped over his torso. This can be slightly modified by trying slightly different angles. Obviously, it'll also work for anal sex, if that's your thing.
![diagram of cross sex position]( "The Cross Sex Position")
Why It Works: The cross is a very comfortable position for both partners, so it's good for long, slow encounters. Plus, it allows you to look at your partner from a whole different angle. (Interested in anal? Read What You Need to Know About Anal Sex.)
Spooning With My Honey
This cuddly position combines spooning and sex. The woman can experiment with either having her legs completely closed, or spread with one leg angled over her man for different depths of penetration.
![diagram of spooning sex position]( "Spoon Sex Position")
Why It Works: This is another comfortable position for building up speed, or alternating slow and fast tempos. This position would also work for anal sex, which seems like a good compromise between cuddle and kink.
In the end, you don’t need to be a human pretzel to change it up between the sheets. Also remember that everyone is a little bit different. That means that what rocks your world might barely elicit a tremor in someone else's sex life. Experimentation is the key to satisfaction. These are just some basic moves beyond missionary to get you started. Where you end up is up to you and your partner.
Oh, and if these positions aren't adventurous enough for you, be sure to check out "The Modern Kama Sutra."
