This week is full of red carpets, red ribbons and redheads, so let’s just get right to it!

Have YOU Been Tested?

As AIDS/Lifecycle, the world’s largest HIV/AIDS fundraiser and awareness event, kicks off its 13th year this week, I’m reminded that it’s time to:

While I practice safe sex with my partners, I still make sure to get tested once every three months. If you’re sexually active you should too! Just Get Tested offers it all online, if you can’t go into a testing center.

And who knows, you may have a sexy encounter at the testing center like the character in this Quickie New York erotica piece.

The Oscars of Porn

The AVN awards happened last weekend and I was, yet again, not invited. Oh well, there’s always next year. Until then, check out the list of award winners. Special congrats to April Flores, one of the most inspiring people in porn, on her BBW performer of the year award. Do you have a favorite?

Reclaim the Walk of Shame

Elizabeth Banks stars in a new movie called "Walk of Shame," which inspired Slutist to write its take on reclaiming the walk - and the term. In my world, that’s a walk of pride, not shame. Hold your heads high, people, and be proud you got some unplanned sex! (You should also read Hate to Break It To You, But You're Probably a Slut.)

Photographer and Boyfriend Examine Gender Roles

As a response to heckles from friends over dating a man five years younger than she is, Lijun Liao took a series of photos in which she and her boyfriend examine gender roles and dominance in relationships. Check out the photos in BUST Magazine and tell us what you think.

Lesbian Parent Trap

For all of you who, like me, fell in love with a young Lindsay Lohan in "The Parent Trap," (and for those of you who were more of the Hayley Mills type), there’s good news! This movie could totally happen. In fact, it did happen to two daughters of lesbian couples, according to this BuzzFeed article.

That's it for this week. If you run across a sex story you love, send it to us.

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