Have you fantasized about leather, whips, and chains? If you haven’t yet had the courage to try out your BDSM fantasies in real life, why not let Halloween be your excuse? It’s a sly way to safely try on a new role - and you can always pretend that it’s "just" a costume. Only you and your partner need to know that you’re going to go home and try it out for real. Leading your date around on a leash can be extremely arousing!
Costume Fun for Foursomes
If you’re going out with friends, why not think about coordinating a group costume? Here are some of the best ones we've seen over the years.
Fred, Wilma, Barney and Betty
These classic Flintstone characters are instantly recognizable with looks that are easy to recreate. Of course, swingers love to mix up the pairings on these couples too.
Find six of your closest friends and figure out who best fits each character’s personality. Gilligan, Skipper, Mr. and Mrs. Thurston Howell, Ginger, MaryAnn and The Professor. These are easy costumes to pull together from a thrift store and the combinations are endless!
Winter, Spring, Summer, and Fall
I’ve never actually seen this done, but I would love to give it a try! I’m thinking sexy, earthy costume pieces that embrace the mood of each season. Imagine a male autumn warrior with his muscled arms and windblown hair wearing an autumn leaf-inspired loincloth! Or how about a sensual winter ice princess with white eyelashes and silver icicle earrings, wearing a fur-lined bra and panties?
When Accessories Come Out to Play
Halloween might be the one time of year when we can really bring our fetishes out to play in public, but it's also a great time to build up your supply of sexy accessories so you can have fun every month of the year. Think about how you might incorporate some of these items into your playtime: feather boas, fishnet stockings, platform heels, long gloves, fingerless gloves, corsets, short skirts, wigs, handcuffs and whatever else you can think of.
Oh, and when you have random sexy stuff hanging around, you may find that it occasionally comes in handy when a friend needs something for her own Halloween costume. But whenever I offer to share, I always set this simple rule: If I let you borrow my [insert naughty, sexy item here … thigh-high fishnet stockings, animal fur handcuffs, leather chastity belt], just say thank you - and don't ask me why I have it!