15 Amazing Remote-Controlled Sex Toys

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Remote control offers a whole range of sexy possibilities ranging from hands-free solo play to power play with a partner.

Sex toys have been going high-tech for quite a while now but one advance we've really been enjoying is the increasing number of remote-controlled toys. As you might imagine, remote controlled toys are toys that can be controlled remotely, either by you or - even better - by a partner. That remote can be as simple as a Bluetooth-enabled remote control your partner can wield from across the room or a customizable app they can control from just about anywhere with an internet connection. Either way, if you're into teasing, power play, or even playing with toys (discreetly!!) in public, remote-controlled toys are definitely the way to go. Here are a few of our top picks in this category. Enjoy!

b-Vibe Rimming Plug

All of b-Vibe's excellent vibrating anal toys include a remote control, but this one's a stand-out thanks to its row of rotating beads, which are designed to stimulate the anal opening. Few toys do this - none do it as well as b-Vibe does. If you're looking for something surprising and unique in the anal play category, this may be the one for you. The remote control only makes play easier, more comfortable and more fun!

Fleshlight Launch

This fully-automated male masturbator does the masturbating for you, allowing you to focus on the virtual interactive content it can connect to. Fitted with the Fleshlight of your choice, this incredible device can do up to 180 strokes per minute. You can also pair it with another Kiiroo toy, allowing a partner to control it remotely. This toy is the ultimate in pleasure tech. Just sit back, relax and let it do the work for you!

Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo

This unique male masturbator fits around the head of the penis and uses an oscillating plate for intense stimulation. But, unlike the Pulse III, the Pulse III Duo can also be used as a couples' vibe; the exterior of the toy vibrates too, allowing couples to come together and share these powerfully orgasmic vibrations together. This toy is highly rated and there's really nothing else like it on the market. Try it!

Je Joue Nuo

A smooth vibrating butt plug? Yes, please! This sweet little toy is all soft curves and powerful vibrations, and you can control it all with a compatible app. Its smooth shape ensures you can wear it comfortably for as long as you want.

Kiiroo Onyx2 & Pearl2 Couples' Set

When you can't have sex, try this. This couples' set includes a G-spot vibrator (Pearl 2) and male masturbator (Onyx 2). When paired via an app, each can control the other from anywhere in the world. It's the closest you'll get to intercourse when you're miles apart. It's also makes for some very sexy, high-tech fun.


This popular prostate massager claims to increase the intensity of male climax by as much as 33% thanks to two powerful motors in its base and tip, and a carefully designed shape. A remote control rounds out the perfect prostate experience - who wants to be reaching back there for the controls when you can sit back, relax and remotely control your way to a hands-free orgasm? 


This remote-controlled massager vibrates internally and externally, providing pleasure to all the right spots. The remote works by SenseMotion, allowing it to be controlled with gestures rather than buttons. It's designed for couples' play, but also works well as a dual stimulation massager. Tip: Have your partner control the vibrations for some hot foreplay. Or, control them yourself while they get busy doing other fun things to your body. This toy's a global bestseller for a reason!

MysteryVibe Crescendo

This vibrator is in a class of its own. Its shape can be customized any which way thanks to its flexible inner core, providing fun, silly, creative sex play. But it also includes all the key basics: a waterproof body, wireless charging and premium silicone. It can be controlled by a compatible app, allowing for remote play as well as the ability to create your own vibration patterns, making it the ultimate vibrator for those with a creative streak.

OhMiBod Fuse

This top-notch rabbit vibe has it all: it can be remotely controlled, is VR compatible, is touch sensitive and is powered by Kiiroo and can be paired with other toys from Kiiroo's line. Use it alone for solo play or let someone else control it for you. Fuse delivers powerful vibration and a little more girth for those who like a fuller feel, while the head does a solid job of targeting the G-spot. This toy provides the ultimate sex tech experience.

Sola Sync

This wand-style vibrator has a lot going for it. It's powerful, coated in silky-smooth silicone and angled to help make holding it more comfortable. As a result, it also makes a great full-body massager. So, why the remote? Try having your partner move the toy across your body while you control vibrations and intensity. 


This lightweight vibe is designed to slip right into your underwear for discreet, hands-free fun. But here's where things get interesting: You can control Vibease via the Vibease Intimate App (as can your partner), or you can also pair it with erotic audio content. As you listen, you vibe will vibrate in sync with your audio fantasy. Fun, right?

We-Vibe Nova

This is the rabbit vibe for people who aren't sure they like rabbit vibes. Nova's unique flexible arm is designed to fit a number of different bodies, making it more compatible with more people than most of its competitors. It's an awesome vibrator all on its own, but the compatible app is the icing on the cake: let your partner control your pleasure, or use it to come up with your own vibration patterns.

We-Vibe Sync

The We-Vibe Sync is one of the most powerful couples' vibes out there (although we like it for solo play too!). It also has one of the best, most intuitive apps on the market. Use it to control not only vibration intensity and patterns, but even to design your own. You or a partner can also control this toy from anywhere in the world, and connect via the app's video function. This toy - and its app - are cleverly designed for pleasure and So. Much. Fun.

We-Vibe Jive

This simple wearable is one of the most comfortable we know of if you're hoping to take the toy out in public. When being worn, the sound it makes is barely audible, even at the highest settings. It also has solid power and a number of fun settings to experiment with via We-Vibe's We-Connect app.

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