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12 Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For

Published: NOVEMBER 27, 2020 | Updated: DECEMBER 3, 2020
It's not gonna be a Silent Night! Which of these 12 Top Gifts Your Vulva will love is going to make you sing?

We know different folks like different strokes but gift-giving doesn't need to be difficult when buying for the vulva-haver in your life.

Just in time for Black Friday and Cyber Monday Sales, we've rounded up some of our faves in the 12 Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For!


Lora DiCarlo Filare

How many sex toys can replicate the sensations of fingers or a tongue - and do it well? Not many, that's for sure! That all changes with the Filare by Lora DiCarlo. Especially designed to feel like your partner's fingers or a silky tongue, this clitoral stimulator offers partnered-sex-sensations - even when solo!

Two protruding bulbs stick out from the silken surface of the Filare. Switch the toy on, and these two bulbs move in a circle. Position the circle around the clitoris, or position the bulbs on top of the clitoris - or any other way you want to use it! Go beyond vibrations for some completely new sensations!

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Lora DiCarlo Filare


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We-Vibe Moxie

Do you want to play with public play? This is the vibrator for you! App-enabled (for cell phone use!) and remote-controlled (for local use!), the We-Vibe Moxie is a clitoral vibrator that fits onto your favorite pair of panties.

Using a powerful magnet, this quiet vibe goes into the perfect spot for you to hit your clit, and the different control methods allow for your partner to control the We-Vibe Moxie's pleasurable vibrations - whether they're across the table or an entire continent away.


We-Vibe Moxie: Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For

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ZALO Amorette

The 2020 XBiz Sex Toy of the Year, the ZALO Amorette is a beautiful, vibrating egg that can be used for clitoral or vaginal pleasure. Its remote control doubles as its storage case for some downright-exciting play possibilities.

Use the ZALO Amorette like a standard egg-shaped vibrator, or allow the two, attached wings to "flutter" against your pleasure spots for a feather-light touch. (Want another way to play with the Amorette? Download the ZALO cell phone app to link this silicone vibrator to your cell phone, too!)

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: ZALO Amorette

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Fun Factory Limba Flex

A perfectly customizable dildo! The Limba Flex does exactly what its name implies: this silicone dildo is fully flexible to bend into any shape that your g-spot and other pleasure spots require.

With its sturdy design, the Limba Flex stays in place once bent and makes for a dildo that can be perfectly customized - over and over! - for exactly what you need. With a flared, suction cup base, this toy is pegging-friendly, anal-friendly, and solo-play friendly too! Choose from Small or Medium to get exactly what you need.

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Fun Factory Limba Flex

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We-Vibe Jive

Were you intrigued by the idea of the earlier We-Vibe Moxie? The We-Vibe Jive is essentially the same toy with the same idea - but designed for insertable, vaginal pleasure instead of clitoral fun.

The We-Vibe Jive was also specifically designed for public play - and works with the We-Connect cell phone app for discreet control over the Jive's vibrations no matter where you play. Fully hands-free, this rechargeable vibrator offers 10 powerful and rumbly vibration modes to always ensure you have the power you need.

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: We-Vibe Jive

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Womanizer Duo

It's hard to go wrong with the best-selling dual-stimulation toy on Kinkly Shop! This orgasmic toy mixes the best of both worlds (vibration and air suction!) along with the best of two erogenous zones (g-spot and clitoral!)

The internal arm perfectly targets (and pleasures) the g-spot with orgasmic vibrations. The external air suction stimulator (with the wonderful tech Womanizer is known for) provides constant, orgasmic suction to the clitoris at the exact same time. As one reviewer said, "This is by far the best suction/vibrator I have ever bought! (and I've tried sooo many!)"

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Womanizer Duo

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Le Wand Bow

Two dildos in one with this weighty, filling stainless steel toy! Perfect for g-spot stimulation, the stainless steel material stands firm - no matter how much pressure you put against it while thrusting.

Use the larger, bulbous end for intense, weighted pleasure, or use the gentler, teardrop side for a softer experience - but still with the rigid, filling sensation of stainless steel! (Have you tried temperature play with stainless steel? We highly recommend it!)

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Le Wand Bow

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Vibratex Magic Wand Plus

We KNOW you've heard of the Hitachi Magic Wand. This is the most recent release! This powerful wand massager adds all of the high-end features of the Magic Wand Rechargeable with the intense power of the Magic Wand Original - at a price point that's just slightly more than the Original.

Offering four mind-blowing intensities with a speed that goes all the way up to 6,300RPM, the Magic Wand Plus offers more customization than the Original Wand Don't let the removable cord fool you; the Magic Wand Plus requires an electrical outlet to turn it on to milk all of the power possible from this massager...no worries on running out of juice, this baby keeps humming until you unplug it! The cord is detachable for easy storage (and less wear and tear on the plug-in area!)

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Vibratex Magic Wand Plus

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OhMiBod Esca 2

Ready for a vaginal vibrator jam-packed full of features? Then you want the OhMiBod Esca 2. The vibrator itself packs a ton of pleasure with its unique design -and is a favorite of cam models everywhere! With an ergonomic design that rests against the g-spot and multiple levels of pleasurable vibration, the Esca 2 is amazing in its own right, but it still has some tricks up its sleeve.

Where this g-spot vibrator really shines are its app compatibilities. The Esca 2 is also one of the few toys on the market that's compatible with two cell phone apps at once. The OhMiBod Esca 2 is compatible with the entire KIIROO infrastructure (for synchronized pleasure with other KIIROO toys at the same time or long-distance control of the Esca 2). It also connects to the OhMiBod app for easy control of the toy and customized vibration patterns. If you want to explore with teledildonics, the Esca 2 is a great place to start!

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: OhMiBod Esca 2

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We-Vibe Rave

People have been "raving" about this g-spot vibrator since it hit the market! Its asymmetrical design encourages g-spot exploration - and offers so many different ways to hit the g-spot! An all-in-one exploration toy, the Rave offers different ways to hit that innermost erogenous zones - including flat surfaces, pointed tips, and orgasmic ridges. Adding even more to the experience, the We-Vibe Rave boasts vibrations that are strong enough to easily be used for clitoral orgasms.

Need more control? The Rave's Bluetooth-capabilities allow it to connect to the We-Connect app for customization of patterns, control of the vibe, and even handing off control to a long-distance partner!

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: We-Vibe Rave

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OhMiBod Rev

Looking for a vibrator built with accessibility in mind? That's this beauty right here! Specially designed to bring pleasure to anyone who wants it, the OhMiBod Rev is a pleasurable toy with some built-in features to appeal to a wider audience.

The wide, finger-grip design is ergonomic and allows for easy holding - even with finger strength concerns. A single, easy-to-press button reduces difficult-to-learn control structures, and the large-typeface instruction manual makes it easier to read - possibly even without your glasses!

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: OhMiBod Rev

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Hot Octopuss DiGiT

What if your fingers had built-in rumbly, ecstatic vibrations? Welcome to the Hot Octopuss DiGiT. With two built-in finger grips, the DiGiT "straps" onto your hand for powerful vibrations at - literally! - the tip of your finger.

Fully waterproof with 5 vibration intensities, the DiGiT can be a great choice for partnered exploration - or anywhere where dropping your vibrator mid-use sounds like a terrible idea.

Top Gifts Your Vulva (or Your Partner’s) Will Thank You For: Hot Octopuss DiGiT

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Mistress Kay

Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual universe with her partners. She can be reached at Kinky World.

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