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Group Sex Etiquette 101
Published: APRIL 26, 2017 | Updated: JANUARY 14, 2022
Planning to attend your first swingers' party or orgy? There are a few points of etiquette that are good to know ahead of time.
It's normal to feel both exhilarated and nervous at your first swingers' party or orgy. Group sex shatters a lot of our norms and expectations around sex, so it's easy to get lost in thoughts of "how is it going to go?"To make your experience more fun and less worrisome, I've compiled a few basic etiquette rules surrounding group sex that you should know. If you're aware of these in advance, you will spend less time having to learn them "in the field" and more time actually (maybe) having fun sex.Read: Everything You Need to Know About Your First BDSM Play PartyRule 1: Review Your Consent AttitudesConsent seems like a straightforward thing ("Would you like to do this?"), but it can sometimes be complicated, what with all the non-verbal signs and the fact that you are, well, in a group.Yet, being in an openly sexual space doesn't mean you can do whatever with whomever. Always make sure to ask for permission for anything (even a simple hug or hand holding) when in any doubt. Keep consent on your mind at all times! 
