Lola is a co-gendered, polyamorous, bisexual, trans* switch. S/he does a lot of teaching at various locations in kink, connection, touch and breath. In this context, s/he strives to have the participants notice the content, not the teacher. As a writer in the social and sexual sciences, s/he's published in a few books and blogs, and seeks to build bridges, mend (and mind) the gaps, and bring people together. S/he's an Urban tantra Professional, and has a practice offering sex and relationship guidance and clarity in the Northeast.
A lot of what we think of as sex is more about an imposed set of norms and expectations. This author explains how preparing to transition from male to female opened the doors to new ways of thinking about - and experiencing - sex.
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Wondering how to approach the topic of STIs with your partner(s)? Sometimes just opening up to a conversation like this is the hardest part.
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The mutual dance of pleasure and the sharing of physical intimacy is about much more than 'getting off;' it represents a deeper manifestation of our true inner selves. Read more about the author's journey here.
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If done the wrong way, rough sex can end badly. Here are the rules for doing it right.
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Sexuality comes in many flavors - including kinky. Isn't it time we celebrate them all? Kink Coming Out Day offers the chance to stand up and be counted as a kinkster.
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