SEX TOYS AND PRODUCTS
Think Sex Toys Are Just for Women? Think Again!
Published: JANUARY 31, 2022
| Updated: JULY 21, 2022 08:21:15
Sex toys aren't just for women or people with vulvas. Men and penis-havers can use them to help with sexual problems and increase sexual pleasure!
If you've been involved in pop culture in any way, shape, or form, you've probably seen sex toys in movies and television shows. Sex and the City is the big example everyone thinks of, but as sexuality discussions become more mainstream, sex toys have been popping up in a lot of media.
What most pop-culture sex toy references have in common, though, is the sexualization of sex toys that get used on vulvas - and the comedy relief of any sex toys designed to be used on penises.
And, plainly speaking, that's just bullshit - and not really an accurate representation of sex toys for penises. Penis pleasurers have come a long way in the past twenty years: from half-assed, uncomfortable sex dolls - all the way to future-tech strokers that can sync with your favorite porn videos.
In fact, the world of sex toys for penis pleasure has never been larger - or more varied. It's so large that you may not even know what's out there and available right now!
So, let me walk you through it. Let's explore all of the magical (and orgasmic!) ways that manufacturers have found to pleasure bodies that have a penis. Because there are a whole lot of options out there:
Penis Strokers
When you think of sex toys that pleasure the penis, the first thing that probably comes to mind is a penis stroker. These are just like the penis sex toys you imagine: soft, squishy, holdable tunnels that fit over the penis with a bit of lube. Once on the penis, the user moves the penis stroker up and down the shaft to provide some pretty fantastic sensations to every area of the penis.
Possibly because of their simple design, penis strokers are available in a wide variety of options. You can get realistic versions that look like a mouth, vaginal entrance, or anal entrance. You can get non-realistic ones that simply look like a tunnel. You can even get some fancy-looking options that look closer to art than a penis stroker (I'm looking at you, Tenga GEO).
The textures for penis strokers will vary as well. Some strokers will have an extremely tight, textured interior - while others may offer a looser design that can be tightened by closing your fist harder. Some penis strokers, like the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit, are specifically designed to help build sexual endurance through regular "training". (In fact, penis strokers can help with other sexual concerns as well).
If you have a particularly large or small penis, definitely pay attention to the measurements of a penis stroker. While most strokers are designed to be one-size-fits-most, the sensations within them may not be. If a penis stroker's texture doesn't begin until the 5th inch inside the tunnel, someone with a 4" penis may not have a great time. If a plastic case prevents the penis stroker from stretching beyond a 1.5" diameter, someone with a 1.75" diameter penis is going to feel uncomfortable.
Looking for a recommendation that removes much of the concern about size? I'd highly recommend the Tenga Eggs or Tenga GEO. Their super-stretchy, open-ended design makes it fit the vast majority of penis sizes with no concern - and lots of pleasure!
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Penis Vibrators
While you might be thinking of penis vibrators like "penis strokers with an additional feature", I encourage you to think about penis vibrators just a bit differently. While it's true that some penis vibrators are penis strokers - but with added vibration, the category has expanded dramatically over the past ten years to focus on the vibrations themselves - completely separate from stroking.
Many penis vibrators are now actually designed to be held stationary - or with minimal stroking on the shaft. Instead, these toys rely on extremely powerful vibrations to stimulate the nerves of the penis to push you into orgasm. In many cases, with no stroking required! (Some people still enjoy some stroking, though, which is why some penis vibrators feature some gentle texturing for light stroking during use.)
The exact area a penis vibrator pleasures will vary based on the design. Some penis vibrators, like the Nexus Eclipse or Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2 are more like a "hat" for the penis and will just wrap around the tip. Other designs, like the Arcwave Ion or Wild Flower Enby 2, offer full-shaft sensations. Others yet, like the Fun Factory Manta or Hot Octopuss Jett, are designed to go anywhere on the shaft to "pick your pleasure" that day.
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Penis Pumps
While the discussion around penis pumps tends to focus around erectile dysfunction, that isn't the only reason to use a penis pump. In fact, while one of the main designs of a penis pump is to encourage erection, that isn't its only function! Using a penis pump can provide fantastic sensations during the experience. Some people choose to use penis pumps just for those sensations!
And even if you don't have any concerns about achieving erection, penis pumps can help you achieve an erection that is stronger than your usual erections for an entirely new sensation!
Penis pumps come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and functionalities, but I recommend caution when trying to find a budget pick. Achieving a proper "seal" around the base can require a good, high-quality design - and manufacturers that tend to "skimp" on this design in the name of lower costs can leave you with a penis pump that barely functions. This is definitely one of those sex toys where you want to read the reviews before buying.
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Sex Dolls
Different than the inflatable sex dolls of yore, the availability of material and improvement of detailed manufacturing processes has made it possible for the average person to own a sex doll - at least, a part of one. Hips-only and torso-only sex dolls have become really popular - and don't cost the thousands of dollars that the full-body counterparts can run.
Devoid of inflatable parts, these lap-friendly sex dolls are lacking in painful seams - but packed full of orgasmic texturing that makes them amazing for intercourse. Their squishy, jiggly bits make them feel realistic during use, while the solidness of the material feels like realistic push-back while using them too. It's a win-win all around! Think of them like penis strokers - only with added context and weight to get lost in the realistic fantasy.
A creative alternative to sex dolls uses Liberator sex furniture to create lifelike sex positions. Using something like the Fleshlight Top Dog or Fleshlight On a Mission (high-density foam sex furniture shapes) to hold a penis stroker in place helps simulate doggy style and missionary sex position (respectively). While not quite sex dolls, these "sex doll workarounds" can be a good option if you were looking at dolls for hands-free, realistic sex positions for masturbation. I'm just constantly astounded by the neat things manufacturers come up with.
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Sex Machines for Penis
As technology as advanced, so have the sex toys we can play with. While sex toys that thrust dildos have become really popular within the past ten years, the sex machines that pleasure a penis are still relative newcomers.
Designed to provide all of the sensations for you, these unique (and definitely pricier!) sex toys offer on-demand sensations. Just lube it up, slide the penis in, and enjoy the sensations the penis sex machine provides.
The exact sensations that the sex machine provides will vary based on the sex machine. The VeDO Hummer 2.0, for example, slips onto the penis, forms a snug seal, and then provides constant suction and stroking - all hands-free! The KIIROO KEON, on the other hand, uses powerful mechanics to power a penis stroker that slides up and down the penis in an entirely different way.