The latest trend in sex toys, a wearable couple's vibrator, ticks all of the boxes people want from their sex toys: hands-free, perfect to use with a partner, and dual-stimulation. With wearable couple's vibrators popping up all over the sex toy industry (and for good reason), let's talk about wearable couple's vibrators - and let you see what all of the hype is about.
A wearable couple's vibrator can make your favorite sex positions even better - or encourage you to try new ones!
Table of Contents
- What is a Wearable Couple's Vibrator?
- What Should I Look For in a Wearable Couple's Vibrator Sex Position?
- Consistent Contact
- Regular Clitoral Contact (if you like that)
- A Free Hand to Use the Remote
- Bonus Tip: Maybe Not for Rough Sex
- Best Sex Positions for a Couple's Vibrator
- Mermaid Sex Position
- Cradle Sex Position
- Double Mount Sex Position
- Love Seat Sex Position
- Butler Sex Position
- Handcuffs Sex Position
- Pretzel Dip Sex Position
- Seated Scissor Sex Position
- Pancake with a Pillow Sex Position
- Missionary Sex Position
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Before we dive into the best sex positions for using a wearable couple's vibrator, it certainly will help if you understand what a wearable couple's vibrator is. This will help you visualize how these sex positions fit in with this popular sex toy style.
A wearable couple's vibrator is a vibrator that can be worn, hands-free, during penis-in-vagina intercourse. Most wearable couple's vibrators are U-shaped in design; one end of this "U" slides into the vaginal canal while the opposing end of the "U" stays outside of the body and rests against the clitoris.
Since the internal end is usually slim in size, a penis can fit in alongside the vibrator itself. Especially for receiving partners who love the feeling of fullness, a wearable couple's vibrator can provide fullness - while simultaneously pleasuring both partners. (For the smoothest experience, we recommend using water-based lube on the insertable end of the vibrator in addition to lubricating the penis too!)
Read: Sex Positions Make a Penis Feel Larger
Now that the wearable couple's vibrator is inside of the body, it provides hands-free pleasure to the clitoris, the g-spot, and the penis - without anyone needing to hold it in place! The closeness of your bodies pressed together keeps the wearable couple's vibrator in place - and allows both of you to focus on the sex position and connecting with one another instead of holding a vibrator.
A visual might make it easier to understand.
This is the Deia Wearable. See its U-shaped design? The two-prond end sidles up to either side of the clitoris while the slim, flat end slides inside of the vagina. This allows this vibrator to be worn during intercourse.
At the same time, the Deia Wearable comes with a remote (that also vibrates, doubling as a bonus vibrator!) to control the vibrations. Two vibration motors are located on the clitoral end (one in each prong) while the third vibration motor is found in the vaginal end. The rechargeable vibrator is equipped with 10 unique vibration settings to allow the two of you to pick the level of stimulation you want that day.
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Now that you know what we're dealing with, let's talk about some orgasmic sex positions that pair perfectly with your wearable couple's vibrator - including the Deia Wearable.
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When you're hoping to use a wearable couple's vibrator during intercourse, you want to look for a sex position that lends itself well to that sex toy style. What do I mean? You should look for: In order to keep your wearable couple's vibrator in the best spot (and prevent it from wiggling around or falling out), lean towards sex positions that provide consistent contact between the two of you. This means that sex positions that regularly require withdrawing the penis - or sex positions where only the tip is regularly inserted - might not be a good choice for using with a wearable couple's vibrator. Is the clitoris-owner of your partnership into firm pressure? If so, I'd recommend exploring sex positions that press the wearable couple's vibrator against the clitoris. While vibrations alone can feel fantastic, some clitoris-owners prefer the extra stimulation from the pressure of the vibrator in addition to the vibrations.
After all, you want the wearable couple's vibe to stay in the body as best as possible with as little movement as possible; that's how you get to enjoy all of its hands-free benefits!
If the clitoris-owner isn't into pressure, make sure to select sex positions that leave a bit of space between your hips - like the Mermaid position or Handcuffs position shown below. This can help prevent the wearable couple's vibe from pressing too firmly into the clitoris.
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Finally, don't forget to keep one person's hand free to control the remote. If one partner's hands are supporting their body weight while the other's hands are holding up their partner's hips (like in the Superman position), there are no hands left to control the vibrations - and that might kink up some of your plans. You'll want to experiment with whether a wearable couple's vibrator is a good fit for rough sex. Jackhammering (extremely fast, tiny thrusts), for instance, can end up repeatedly pressing the vibrator into the body - possibly with more force than intended. As the vulvar area is more sensitive to high loads of force than other parts of the body (just ask people who enjoy rough pegging what pubic bone bruising can feel like!) you'll want to take it slow with your wearable couple's vibrator. Read: The Rules of Rough Sex
Instead, focus on finding a sex position that leaves at least one hand available to control the vibrations. Bonus points if you consciously choose which partner's hand. Who will be taking command of all of the sensations?
Especially as you get to know your wearable couple's vibrator, how it fits, and how to best keep it in the erogenous zones you want to pleasure, start your thrusting off slow and gentle. You can slowly ramp things up as both of you figure out what feels best - and what level of intensity starts to lead to soreness the next day.
But for many couples, rough, "pound you into the bed" intercourse with a wearable couple's vibrator may lead to some next-day soreness. Whether that's something you love or dislike is entirely a personal preference.
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Now that you know what we're looking for (close contact with at least one hand free - preferably with a position that allows for moderate or deep penetration), let's look at some of the best sex positions for a wearable couple's vibrator:
Perfect for exploring how the Deia Wearable fits between your bodies, the Mermaid Position puts penetration at a perfect 90-degree angle. With both people's hands free, either person can make adjustments to the placement of the wearable couple's vibrator, and the face-to-face contact encourages communication about its placement too. Especially if the receiver isn't into strong clitoral pressure, the Mermaid position allows both partners to find the perfect angle that provides wearable vibrations - without digging into the clit.
Caution: While the Mermaid sex position can lend itself well to full, strong thrusts, take it easy at first with gentler, more shallow thrusts and constant contact between your bodies. This can help the wearable couple's vibrator stay in place.
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Since both partners have their hands comfortably free, you can easily control the vibrations - or in the case of the Deia Wearable, the vibrating remote could be simultaneously used on anyone's breasts as well. If you love rimming, the Butler Position is the perfect fit for you. Up the intensity of your analingus experience by hitting three separate erogenous zones at once - with the help of a wearable couple's vibrator. While the vibrator pleasures the g-spot and clitoris, the giver's tongue can pleasure the butt for a whole lot of pleasure. With a bit of patience, the Handcuffs Sex Position can be a great fit with a wearable couple's vibrator. The receiver's bent-over position adds even more feelings of fullness to the experience of wearing a couple's vibrator, while the closeness of both of your bodies helps keep the toy comfortably in place. Be aware, though: this position keeps everyone's hands busy, so feel free to modify this position by requesting the receiving partner lay onto a surface (like the Eiffel Power position) - or take breaks to reach for the remote when a new vibration setting is desired. Looking for new visuals during sex? Consider a side entry sex position like the Pretzel Dip Position. Not only does it leave everyone's hands available for touching and repositioning during sex, but its unique fit can feel a bit like exploring adventurous sex positions - while still maintaining the comfort and relaxed fit you love about your favorite sex positions. Let the receiver control the amount of clitoral pressure with the Seated Scissor sex position. With the Seated Scissor, the penetrating partner's thigh functions as a grindable surface - and allows the receiver to press into the thigh as much as desired. This can press the wearable vibrator firmly against the clitoris. Partnered with the hands free remote to control the vibration intensity, these two things can work together to make it easier for the receiver to reach orgasm. Perfect as a stretching challenge, the Pancake With a Pillow sex position is fantastic for receivers who enjoy firm clitoral pressure from their wearable couple's vibrator. With the penetrating partner's weight on top of the receiver, the wearable vibrator will be pushed firmly against the clitoris - and the penetrating partner can offer further stimulation by simply rocking the hips. Okay, okay. This may feel like a bit of a cop-out, but it's still true: the Missionary sex position is a really fantastic fit with a wearable couple's vibrator like the Deia Wearable. Don't think that you have to reinvent the wheel if you want to use a couple's vibrator. While experimenting with new sex positions can be a blast, a lot of your tried-and-true options (like Missionary!) lend themselves perfectly to a wearable couple's vibrator. And that's the magic of a couple's vibrator like the Deia Wearable. It makes the things you already know and love feel new again.
Practitioners of tantra - or just feeling an intimate session? Explore the possibilities of a wearable couple's vibrator with the Cradle position. This position sees the receiver essentially "sitting" on the penetrating partner's lap.
Think of the Cradle position as a rocking sex position instead of a thrusting sex position. By making it more difficult to thrust, it encourages the two of you to connect in other ways - while the vibrations of the wearable couple's vibrator offer additional pleasure. I recommend that the penis-owner pay special attention to how the sensations feel - as vibration-only intercourse tends to be a rarity! Feel free to readjust the depth of your penetration and the placement of the wearable couple's vibrator to get everything into the right spot. With a bit of luck, patience, and a high level of arousal, you might find some fantastic orgasms in this position!
It's common for limbs to fall asleep (especially the legs!) in this position, so feel free to move to the Kneel position, Wrap Around Position, or Kneel and Sit position if you want to continue the intimate feel of this position.
The Double Mount Penetration Sex Position uses the magic of a sex prop for comfortable from-behind sex. While the receiver's legs are spread wide, they can simultaneously press into the sex prop underneath them to help hold the wearable couple's vibrator in-place - and to provide the perfect amount of pressure to the clitoris while using the couple's vibrator. It's like a grindable surface right underneath the body during sex!
A great way to multitask with your favorite furniture, the Love Seat Position works fantastically with a wearable couple's vibrator. With the receiver's body weight on top, the wearable couple's vibrator stays firmly lodged between your bodies. The limited range of motion helps keep the wearable vibrator perfectly in place with more shallow thrusting.
Perfect for those who enjoy an ever-changing amount of clitoral pressure, the receiving partner can easily lean forward - or lean backwards - to apply extra pressure to the clitoris from the wearable couple's vibrator.
Keep in mind: with the receiver standing up with legs spread, gravity may work against you for keeping the wearable couple's vibrator in place. The receiver or giver can help hold the wearable couple's vibe in place to ensure it doesn't slip away from those innermost spots.
A word of caution: the penetrating partner will want to be careful not to be too rough. Take the Handcuffs position slow at first - to figure out the depth and pressure that feels best for both of you. Remember: using a wearable couple's vibrator will provide more fullness and tightness during penetration. You don't want your thrusting to provide too much sensation, so take it slowly at first!
Since the Pretzel Dip position provides more space during intercourse, make sure you experiment with the stroke length and speed that works best with a wearable vibrator. The unique angle of this position might take a bit of experimentation to find the best way to make it work for the two of you.
As the receiver controls the depth and speed - but may not be able to easily see what's going on, I recommend taking this position slowly. Especially with a wearable vibrator slipped into the body, things will feel a bit different - and accidentally missing your mark during a thrust can be extremely painful. You both may initially opt for gentle thrusting and rocking instead of long thrusts with this position.
At the same time, the angle of the vaginal canal provides the perfect angle for the penetrating partner to lean in. Especially if other positions provide too much contact with the connecting joint of the wearable couple's vibrator, the Pancake with a Pillow position's perfect angle helps reduce that - and keeps the penis perfectly aligned with the flat side of the wearable couple's vibe.
Be aware: this position will make everything feel very tight! If the receiver wants an amazing feeling of fullness, this is the position!
Table of Contents
- What is a Wearable Couple's Vibrator?
- What Should I Look For in a Wearable Couple's Vibrator Sex Position?
- Consistent Contact
- Regular Clitoral Contact (if you like that)
- A Free Hand to Use the Remote
- Bonus Tip: Maybe Not for Rough Sex
- Best Sex Positions for a Couple's Vibrator
- Mermaid Sex Position
- Cradle Sex Position
- Double Mount Sex Position
- Love Seat Sex Position
- Butler Sex Position
- Handcuffs Sex Position
- Pretzel Dip Sex Position
- Seated Scissor Sex Position
- Pancake with a Pillow Sex Position
- Missionary Sex Position
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Mistress Kay
Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that's quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual universe with her partners. She can be reached at Kinky World.
